Monday, December 01, 2008

Winter blues and shifting sands

It's been a funny old month, November. I've been realising slowly how badly winter affects me. I think I have a form of SAD because I can feel myself slipping into sadness and feelings of inadequacy as the days shorten and the weather gets colder. For some reason this november has been decidedly worse than previous ones. I guess it started when my lovely Grandma was taken into hospital 300 miles away with absolutely no prospect of being able to visit her. We've been trying to persuade her to come up here to live near us, but there are complications, not least of which is that she is 90 years old and very unsure of moving so far. I had the task of dealing with the hospital, social services and home help agency before she could be discharged and it helped me to be able to do something. She was finally allowed home after being assessed and having a new and better care package arranged.

Feeling overwhelmed seems to be a semi-permanent state with me at this time of year. Small things get blown out of all proportion by my over-taxed brain and I feel like I am carrying the weight of the world on my shoulders. I have described it to myself as feeling like my brain is a hedgehog turned inside out with the prickles all attacking me. I remember one particularly horrible day early on in the month when Daddy Bear said something, probably innocuous, when I was feeling low, and I went completely into myself, convinced that he didn't understand or value me at all. I took myself off out of the house and marched myself up to a beautiful waterfall nearby where I stood crying in the rain, certain that the world was about to end. I barely noticed the beauty of the place, and I felt so very alone and unloved. Luckily when I came home we were able to talk and reconnect, and Daddy bear was able to listen and just hold me close. I realised it was more about me and my physical and mental state than about 'us'. The mood swings since have caught me off guard and left me gasping for air at times. I wish I had upswings as well as down ones, but I am aware enough to see that if I look after myself better I can cope. It can be hard to muster the energy and find the time to do the things that I know will help, such as good food and exercise, but it is crucial that I keep on working on it.

 November is also a very full-on time for me with loads of close family birthdays, including my middle daughter. Coming as they do so close to Christmas I feel under so much pressure to find presents and create good times and memories. This November I felt like I barely limped through them all, but Daddy bear was on hand to take the pressure off and deal with some of the birthdays himself. It was a huge help, especially as he is so loving and complimentary about the job I was doing in trying to make people happy. His is one of the birthdays, and it was really happy for both of us.

So now that is out of the way and I can start trying to look forward to Christmas. I promised myself that I'd do my best to get most of the buying and sorting done by the end of November, and I have. Only a few more gifts to buy. It'll be a more frugal Christmas than some but  no less happy for all that, I hope.

As to shifting sands, that is what I have realised that home ed relationships can be. When you think that life is fairly settled something comes along to blow your cosy ideas out of the water and unsettle you. It's nothing really major, and I don't think I could put my finger on it if I tried, but it all feels so fluid, as though life is going on around you and you have no power over what is going on or what people mean to you, or more importantly, what you mean to them. Living where we do, an hour's drive from most other home edders, and with the added complication of the price of petrol to worry about, it can be easy to feel left out of the loop. I have to choose carefully what we will be involved with and make difficult prioritising decisions about the kind of interaction I feel will be best for the kids and me. I've no doubt that this particular aspect of home edding will continue to be problematic. I can just about cope with being uncertain as to my relationships with others, but when it starts to affect the kids it makes life very tough indeed. Both the girls are very sociable creatures and seem to need more friends than I can supply. They are 7 and 4. Their older brother seems more sanguine about it, happy to slot in with others when the opportunity arises, but content enough with our small family circle. The girls seem to crave other children, especially girls, and complain that they have no one to play with. I wish I could wave a magic wand and provide the company they need, but in the absence of this I am a little lost and at sea.

And finally, a little bit of positivity. I have 3 tuesday mornings between now and Christmas and I've set myself the task of going to to our tiny little local library to try and write some of the children's books, the ideas for which have been crowding in on me for some time now. I am alternately excited and terrified, convinced of my ability and certain I'll fail. I have absolutely no idea of the nuts and bolts of the writing business, such as how to present my work to publishers, but after ten years of looking after little ones the one thing I do know about is how books are crafted. All I have to do now is conquer the tyranny of the blank page and regardless of how it's 'supposed' to be done, find my own way through it and out the other side. Anyone know of any good writing courses in the north east?

Monday, November 03, 2008

Making progress?

This is a bit of a follow on to my September wobbles post. After acknowledging to myself that I do get all academical at times I found myself pondering about learning in general and how it applies to my 10 year old son in particular. I wondered whether one of the reasons I get a bit wobbly at times is that I find myself thinking of other children of my children's ages and what they might be doing in school, and how my children aren't doing that stuff and that maybe if they don't do those things maybe they'll never learn them. Obviously I had to sit myself down with a cup of tea and give myself a stern talking to at this point. In order for this line of thought to be productive it had to go somewhere, so I gave myself the task of trying to come up with what I thought 10 year old children ought to be able to do. So what should a ten year old be able to do? Hold an intelligent conversation, be able to build a den, make a cup of tea, cook a simple meal, add and subtract, know a few times tables, if not all of them up to 12, read to themselves? I haven't really reached any conclusions which will help me to find ways to enable him to learn what he 'needs' to know.  Maybe I could think about what he ought to be able to do by the age of 18 and work backwards from there. Still didn't get me anywhere. It's impossible to think in those terms. I was always urged during my teaching career to be proactive. Home ed seems to be the opposite of being proactive ( I never really did figure out what 'they' meant by that). It's about observing and enabling children in the moment, not at some hypothetical point in the future. It's about seeing the joy in what they are doing right now and not always wanting them to move on or 'progress'.

Tuesday, September 23, 2008

Demons vanquished (or at least squished a little)

The demon of the playroom has finally been vanquished. For now. It's a huge achievement for me and I'm patting myself on the back. I reach the nirvana of everything in it's place (and broken and unloved toys sneakily disposed of) a couple of times a year. It took me 3 days of solid hard graft this time while the kids played and left me to it, throwing me the odd pitying look that said 'She's at it again, let's just leave her to her madness'.

 This particular demon seems to work in totally the opposite way from the demon in the Poltergeist film. Instead of sucking everything into the playroom (which would be nice as it would be doing at least half of the job for me) it whirls things around in there and spews things out all over the rest of the house. The demon in Poltergeist also abducted children, which is a tempting thought at times, as long as I could have them back unharmed when I'm ready for them.

 The amount of time I spend picking things up off the floor leads me to conclude that there is another demon at work, who spends all his time (got to be a 'he') putting things on the floor for me to pick up. Maybe it's only a mischievous demon trying to be helpful, I mean it has obviously spent a lot of time watching what I do and, seeing that I spend so much time picking things up, he has decided that either I enjoy it or that it is part of my function and role in life, without which I'd be lost. 

 Then there's the elves. You may have them too. What they do is to steal something important, like car keys or glasses, and keep them for themselves just long enough for you to notice they are missing, at which point they follow you around in your frantic search for them and will only relinquish them when you've looked in the same place three or four times. They will then put them in that very place, leaving you muttering 'But I looked there already'. St Anthony can occasionally be relied upon to make them put things down. I've no idea how as I don't believe in him, but that doesn't seem to matter. if you are absolutely desparate you can ask for his help and things appear. Of course there may be a perfectly rational explanation for both phenomena to which Occam's razor can be applied and which doesn't involve either elves or saints.

Tuesday, September 09, 2008

September alert!!

It's rolled around again like a nasty rash or a dose of the flu, but this year I'm ready for it and I have vowed it's not going to get the better of me ever again. In the past when September rolled around and everyone else's kids were trudging off to school again something strange would come over me. I'd get a case of the teachery wobbles ( I was a secondary school teacher in a past existence) and would start  to panic about 'getting the kids to do something educational'. This would always end in tears, usually mine, as I tried to squash some learning into my kids and they would dig their heels in and seemed to want to sabotage my best efforts at 'structuring' them. I appreciate now that they will not be squashed or structured, no matter how hard I try. So this year (somehow the year always starts in september for me- old habits die hard) I am going to be true to myself and more importantly to my kids and follow our unschooling instincts and be a lot more calm about the whole thing. All through the summer the kids have been following their own learning patterns and filling their growing brains with plenty of new experiences and ideas and building on what they have already amassed in there. Why reinvent the wheel? If it ain't broke don't fix it. I don't really understand where these academic panics come from, but I'm just going to acknowledge that they are there and then ignore them. So we'll go on outings of various kinds and they'll do their own educational thing and I will try not to turn every experience into a learning opportunity. I'll just sit back and marvel at the organic way that children have of making sense of their world, and I'll be there at every turn to help, find resources, suggest ways to enrich their discoveries and generally and genuinely appreciate the efforts they are making for themselves.

Monday, August 18, 2008

Getting sorted

I keep finding that I think of things to blog about then by the time I get round to jotting them down something else has become more interesting or insistent. So over the last couple of weeks I've been about to write about this or that and never got round to it. Such is life I suppose,and it's life that keeps getting in the way and changing my priorities for me.

Well, anyway, the item at the top of my list (for now, so I'd better note it down while it's still at the top) is that sometimes it can seem like you're banging your head against a brick wall trying to achieve the seemingly unachievable then all of a sudden things start to fall into place (makes a nice change from things falling apart) following the unlikeliest of proddings. This week it was the imminent arrival at our place of a beautiful chaise longue. I have long coveted one for our imaginary conservatory which we are going to have built. One Day. It'll be perfect in there. As I'm sure you are aware though, what you covet doesn't usually come along at the right moment, if at all, so when one was offered to us we had no choice but to jump at the chance. I had imagined that we had a little time to organise ourselves in time for it's arrival, but apparently not. The owner wants rid of it, so we need to fit it in to an already pretty cluttered house. It's going in our bedroom. On top of the dog bed, in front of my chest of drawers. I'm joking. We'll have to move the dog bed to oh, wherever. I started doing my usual 'well, if it's going to happen we need a plan and I need it clear in my head before we even start' and I got accused of being negative and as Daddy Bear and I tried to work a way through the morass the conversation turned to the contents of our wardrobe and how we had promised ourselves that we were going to go through all the stuff and radicalise it. Then we found ourselves actually getting down to it. Radicalising, that is. Clothes were dragged out, tried on, cooed over or groaned at and before we knew it we had a whole black bin bag full of unsuitable clothing. I was left quite a few items of lovely clothing from my mother in law. It really is lovely stuff, Jaeger, Viyella, seriously good quality, but I had never been sure whether any of it was actually 'me' or could be made to become 'me'. Most of the keep stuff was quite a surprise as I started thinking and experimenting with what clothes could go with what in a 'me' kind of way. I am now much more at ease with my wardrobe and planning what to wear at a later date. After that things started to come together, things got done, new furniture we had ordered was delivered and put in place and things I had planned on doing for a while actually got done. I now have a home made magazine holder for the loo. I am very happy about it on so many levels. Not least of which is the fact that I envisaged what it would look like, sourced and bought the necessary eyelets, put them onto the old airplane headrest cover and hung it up. Now I have some loo reading, and a sense of achievement. Priceless.

Monday, July 21, 2008

That was then, this is now

I've been thinking a lot lately about the way I parent. I'm a big fan of Faber and Mazlish mainly because, when I read this book for the first time, I was struck by how much of it I was already doing instinctively, yet there was still a lot to learn about parenting in a positive way. I think I occasionaly approach TCS (Taking Children Seriously) but it's mostly a combination of relaxed parenting and my own particular spin of respect and compassion. With a dollop of Cesar Millan too:-) It works for dogs, but it also seems to work for children, especially when I remember to do the exercise part. I can't manage the four-hour hikes that Cesar does every morning, but we get fresh air and pack migration as often as possible. I digress.
What I was mostly thinking is that doing it this way demands a lot of energy and effort from me. And a lot of tolerance, patience, compassion, thought and negotiation. I should apply for a job a the UN. It'd be a breeze. The other day I had picked up a big bag of bird seed from the garden centre and the girls and I went through a whole long rigmarole of which child gets to sit where in the car. Although I was quite pleased at how I handled it and got the girls to agree on a workable solution, part of me was screaming ' Why shouldn't I just do it the way my parents did it?' You probably know what I mean. It would have been a case of 'Right! You sit there and you sit there. And shut up!' Never did me any harm, I thought to myself. Then I gave myself a chance to reflect on that thought. Actually it did do a lot of harm. It set my brother and me against each other. While our parents were around we were nominally obedient. Out of sight of my parents he was quite sadistic towards me. I can see now how obvious it is that that would happen. If you repress children and give them no say in their life then they are going to react against it in the only way they know how, which is to repress someone else in their turn. I truly believe that is how bullying happens in schools too. This kind of parenting also allows children no way of learning how to be anything but dependant and helpless and that sets up endless internal conflicts on reaching adulthood. My kids are lively and noisy and bolshy, but I'm almost certain that they are not mean or spiteful or sneaky with each other because they don't have to be. They get to work out how things should be in front of me. And I hope they realise that all feelings are acceptable, but that some actions aren't. And that it is possible to work things out in a way that respects everyone's needs as far as is workable.

A Grand Day Out

It's been a lovely day. It started with dental appointments for all the kids with glowing reports about their teeth, even Big Brother who is notoriously bad at brushing but has been remembering and doing it well lately, then off to Durham for a Breastfeeding Picnic to raise awareness about the disparity between Scottish law and the rest of the UK. Morgan puts it so much better than I could here:There were about 20 mums there and it was so nice to be in the majority for a change. Being a 'long term' breastfeeder can be a bit of a lonely old life at times, but there I was surrounded by other breastfeeding mums all enjoying the sunshine and having a good time. I met a wonderful young man called Daniel who sat happily on my lap and smiled up at me for ages. I also got distracted by the cute student eye-candy on my long walk back from the toilets in the cathedral:-) Then after the picnic it was off to a cafe bar to spend a great afternoon of adult chat with a Ma/Phd student discussing bed-sharing. The hours whizzed by and I think we covered every possible topic relating to attachment parenting. A whole day surrounded by like-minded people. Priceless.

Sunday, July 13, 2008

Doing different

Whilst watching a tv programme on unassisted birth, (Extraordinary People: Outlaw births) I started to think about the parallels between unassisted birth and unschooling. I know I was supposed to be thinking 'Oh look at those strange people, putting themselves and their babies at risk by turning their back on the medical profession' but being fairly literate media-wise, and having taken part in a similar documentary ('Honey I suckle the kids'. That title sucks. Literally) I ignored the obvious bias and just watched the mothers talking and followed their stories.

Like unschoolers, or autonomous home educators, these mothers were following their own instincts, trusting their bodies and their babies and arming themselves with enough knowledge to cope with most eventualities. The process would probably scare the pants off most people (in the case of unassisted birth and unschooling) but the results spoke for themselves. You only had to look at the faces of the mothers and the body language of the newborns to see that both had come through an incredible experience. In one case the mother was in labour for only two hours and was exceptionally quiet throughout.

I suppose that for birth there is a kind of half way house, that is a midwife attending a home birth, which we did three times as a family, but I just couldn't think of an equivalent in terms of education. You either have the hospital birth/ send your child to school or the unassisted birth at home/ home education. There is nothing in between, no 'midwife' attending to help you through if anything 'goes wrong'. However the more I thought about it, I realised that the comparison doesn't work, for this part at least. We the parents are the midwives of home education. We are the ones with the expertise. We know our children and we make sure that each child gets exactly what he or she needs from the experience.

It is also quite a private experience, in both cases. No one really sees us 'educating' our children. We go out and mix with all kinds of people, but there is really no one else in our house (or walking round with us ) examining what we do, checking our pulse or our blood pressure, telling us when to push or not (I'm getting into the medical analogy now). Occasionally someone makes an attempt to tick their boxes by ensuring that we are indeed in labour/ educating our children otherwise than by attendance at school, but for the most part we are left to get on with it without interference.

I guess alot of people would see either stance as being quite arrogant or foolhardy. Who are we to question the received wisdom of birthing in hospital or sending our children at school? Who do we think we are, believing that tried and tested methods of birthing or schooling don't apply to us and our children? After all a lot of teachers/midwives spent ages in training and a lot of educatonal theorists/obstetricians spent years honing their skills so that teachers/ midwives could be taught exactly what works in a classroom setting/ hospital birth. There, though, is the rub. These methods may well 'work' in schools and hospitals, but things are different at home. The methodology is different. And what we do works for us.

There is also no predictable way to do it. Each birth/ child is different, and no one can predict how it will turn out. I suppose it comes down to a deep conviction that what you are doing is right for your child(ren) and your family, and the only way we can tell that we're doing the 'right' thing is by the way it feels. For the most part, with us, it feels just fine. There are a few pangs along the way, a few false starts, a few shifts of position, the odd scary moment and, as in labour, I do get to the point when I feel I can't take it any more. That of course is a very important moment in childbirth/ home education, because you know you're about to see the fruits of your labour.

Tuesday, July 01, 2008

Sorting it all out

Anyone who has known me for any length of time is probably familiar with my 'tidy-enough-house' dilemma. I like to be spontaneous when it comes to the kids' learning but the irony is that one can only be truly spontaneous when one has a rough idea of where things are, and that takes time and effort.  I've also noticed how my mood improves when the house is relatively tidy, and how muddled I feel when the house is in a more chaotic state. However, I just don't like housework. Perhaps I feel it's beneath me, or maybe it's just a hangover from my childhood when I had to follow someone else's agenda and timetable. I had a bit of an epic struggle this week with a small but very significant part of the house. I call it 'my area' (maybe I should change that to 'my space'!), and it's about six foot square with large windows looking out onto a lovely bit of the garden where the bird feeders are. Since we moved here two and a half years ago, it has gone through a few metamorphoses ranging from general dumping ground to depository for other people's stuff to 'this bit belongs to me - see? I've even got a storage unit (erected by me) to prove it'!!!

I had an external deadline to work to as we were having a new phone line put in and I just had to get it tidied, but when faced with the prospect of getting down to it I went into a kind of meltdown. It seemed to me to be the embodiment of a problem that's been getting worse and worse lately. I try to get things sorted, but when faced with what seems an uphill struggle I panic and freeze and feel totally overwhelmed by the task. I've been trying to sort the playroom (ie tidy, find a place for everything, throw away stuff we no longer need or use, gather stuff from around the house and put it where it should be) for the last 18 months. It just feels like such a mammoth task, and every time I get it sorted to a certain extent, life intervenes, I turn my back and it's all back to square one. I feel like Sisyphus some days.

 Well, with some emotional help from Gary I calmed down enough to make a start, but not before I'd retreated under my duvet to try and steady myself. I got stuck into it and the strange thing is that once I'd started to make a difference to all the piles, I actually began to enjoy it. It felt like a fog was lifting. Having the deadline both helped and hindered. It meant that I absolutely had to get it done, but it definitely contributed to the anxiety attack as well.

I never really know how to organise myself as there seems to be so much going on at once that it's hard to see what really needs doing and what can be left for a while. I did take on board something I read recently in a book called 'Undoing Depression' by Richard O'Connor. In it he talks about the difference between things being 'urgent' and 'important'. Too often we are governed by the tyranny of urgent tasks because they are in your face and demand your attention right now, but there are also important things, things that could really make a difference to your life, and even lessen the number of urgent tasks, but these important things keep getting pushed to the back of the queue by urgent tasks. I took from this that sometimes you have to risk the anxiety of ignoring the urgent tasks and actively decide to tackle the important ones. Like 'my area'. It's going to make a real difference now that I have a space to retreat to with a lot of my stuff around me, especially now that I have found homes for a lot of it.

Evne though I hate hearing myself saying 'Not now, darling' or 'Can't you see I'm busy?' I may just have to weather that for a while until I feel I have achieved more of the really important things in our life. Either that or take a leaf out of one home edding mother of six's book, whom I read about some years ago. She would get up at 4am apparently, so that she could get all the housework done before the kids got up, then she could devote her entire day to the kids learning. I certainly admire her, but I know for a fact I don't have that amount of stamina.

Monday, June 02, 2008

To bed perchance to sleep

Although I would describe ourselves as an autonomous family, especially where the children's learning is concerned, one area where I'm unashamedly NOT autonomous is sleep, or rather bedtimes. This is because, if the kids were allowed to let their bodies tell them when to go to bed, we'd have 3 different bedtimes and 3 different waking times which would effectively mean that I'd be on call most of the evening and starting the day pretty early due to their differing body clocks.I definitely need some 'me' time. I suppose to be strictly accurate I need some 'no kids' time in order to wind down properly and recharge my own batteries.  However we have been really struggling with how to get them to go to sleep at night. The usual bedtime for the older two, aged 9 and 6, is 8.30 with lights out at 9. This doesn't mean that they go to sleep easily. We've tried to make their environment conducive to sleep by making sure they eat well and exercise during the day, disallowing screen time an hour before bedtime, having a gradual wind down period, reading stories (most nights), not having tv or computers in their rooms and generally making sure that their bedrooms are comfortable places to sleep. They are allowed to have music or a story cd while they are in bed, which gets switched off at lights out time, and they each have a night light to offset any anxiety issues. Even with all this they take an AGE to go to sleep, some nights I even go to bed before they're asleep. I've been trying to get them up earlier in the morning but I'm so bleary eyed myself that I find it hard to drag myself out of my nice warm bed.

 Today was slightly different though. The two older ones got themselves up at stupid o'clock, I believe it was about 6am, an hour which I had heard of, but never quite believed existed. They played together pretty well in that we didn't hear them until nearly 8am and the day progressed well enough. At about 9.30am my 9 yr old called me to say that his little sister was asleep on the settee. This I had to see. Sure enough there she was propped up and asleep. Time for a sneaky photo I thought. She woke about half an hour later and we all went out for a picnic and a visit to a park with friends. On the way home Big Brother fell asleep in the car for a few minutes (hope that doesn't bode ill for his bedtime tonight) but the girls stayed awake, until we got home. Then I realised that Big sister aged 6 was again asleep on the settee at about 7pm. This hasn't happened for so long I couldn't believe my eyes. I managed to carry her to bed and sincerely hope she sleeps through and doesn't get a second wind later this evening.

 I think I need to go and get out my copy of 'The No Cry Sleep Solution' (the one for older children) by Elizabeth Pantley and see if I can update our bedtime/sleep arrangements. That's one of the hardest things about bringing up children: you need to constantly reassess what you're doing as the children get older. Everything is fluid, nothing stays the same for long. At least I have some good help in the books that I have found useful in the past. As well as giving some good advice, none of it judgmental, the authors have helped me to hone my thinking skills and arrive at our own imperfect solutions.  All I need is to feel awake enough to actually think clearly.

Sunday, June 01, 2008

To blog or not to blog

As promised, well hinted at, in my first post, here's my attempt to explain to myself what I'm doing or trying to do by writing this new blog of mine. I have had an awareness since I started this blog that time is kind of stacking up against me in a 'gotta post, gotta post!' kind of way. My first attempt at blogging  here :http://lizngary.blogspot.com/ (hmm, there's my first snag, I don't know how to put a link in there) was good enough as a first attempt and I'm quite happy with the posts in terms of tone and message, but I just couldn't seem to keep it up. Maybe I wasn't sufficiently motivated, but I think it just probably wasn't the right time for me to be blogging. Is there ever a right time, I wonder? With a little help from my friends I had a bit more success being part of a collective blog here: http://loozingit.blogspot.com/ . I had a clear reason and aim in mind, ie formulating a healthy eating plan, and that helped me to keep on track, both with blogging and healthy eating.

So I've been trying to work out exactly why I feel like blogging now, when so many others are reaching the decision to stop blogging, whether temporarily or permanently. I guess that blogs, like email group members, will tend to come and go and I should base my decision to blog on my own feelings and motivation. I've also had more of a chance to have a look around at the blogging world and read various different kinds of blogs written by people in differing communities, so I've had a chance to think about the look and feel of this blog (and I have big plans, hindered only by a lack of familiarity with the software which is making the process frustratingly slow and painstaking).  I do have my 3 fairy blogmothers (thanks you lot) to help me overcome any glitches, as I have learnt that good support is essential in any undertaking.

I have been examining what I want and what I don't want from blogging and from this blog in particular. I think I'm clearer about what I don't want. I've been dismayed in the past by bloggers who seem to think that they are only writing for a select few, perhaps a group of friends. Now this is absolutely fine, as most of us probably envisage a small readership and expect comments only from people we 'know' quite well either in the real world or in cyberspace. What I didn't think was fine was that they seemed to forget that, unless you password your blog, it is open to anyone who wants to read it. As such I believe one has a responsibility to be respectful, especially if you are blogging about real people in real time. I've also felt very humbled looking at not only other peoples' blogs but also their lives. They all seem to have so much going on in their days that it made my head spin and I felt inadequte by comparison. Now I know that comparisons are odious but I just don't feel up to presenting our life that way. So what do I want from this blog? Well recently I have had experiences which I could have taken to an email group or discussed with friends, but it either didn't feel appropriate or it wasn't possible and I felt the need to examine my thoughts and feelings soon after the event. I think that's what I'm hoping to do, strew a few thoughts and ideas on this table I've created and push them around a bit till they resemble something.

Well, as I have hungry kids pressing me to cook, I'll end with just a brief explanation of the title of this blog. Most obviously I chose this title, or rather my dh Gary suggested it, because we live in a wooden house in the far north of england. We love our 'shed', it is a fascinating place to live and I'm proud and passionate about living here. However I do feel the need to get away and roam on a  regular basis. It doesn't have to be far, it can be a walk in the wonderful countryside near us, or a drive to visit other home edders. The view of 'our' valley as we come over the hill on our way home is a great reward for taking ourselves away for a while. And it gives me new perspective every time I see it. If ever I get wobbly about having moved our family 300 miles from our old home I only have to sweep along down 'Mile Bank' and I feel like a queen surveying her realm.

Monday, May 26, 2008

Hello world!

This is my second attempt at blogging. I'm still not really sure what I'm expecting from it or how I'm going to go about it, in fact one of my first posts will probably be 'To blog or not to blog' detailing the journey I've taken to get even this far! At the moment I'm just standing back and admiring the view.

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